This is the “can of worms” as I like to call it. Unlike the other 4 facets of the Brain Personality Connection it is not encoded in your DNA. It is the way you were raised, your life growing up. This includes, but is not limited to: family expectations, societal expectations, birth order, cultural expectations, early childhood or childhood trauma, and family dynamics. Because it is NOT what is natural to your brain it can often DERAIL you so to speak from accessing and living connected to your true brain gifts and strengths.